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4 Signs It's Time to Change Your Mindset
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For many of us, success is a very slow process and one that involves a huge amount of work and effort.
For others though, it all seems to come very naturally.
We all know those people, the ones who seem to have the Midas touch – who seem to strike lucky no matter what they do.
What's their secret?
The most significant difference between those who succeed and those that don't is their mindset.
Your mindset is a small thing that makes a huge difference in whether you achieve success and is the primary catalyst that drives your feelings of confidence, self-worth, and competence.
When you become consumed by negative beliefs or assumptions, you will find that you are unhappy with your life.
Eventually, your perception will become your reality, so changing your mindset can make a huge difference in your life.
A negative mindset tends to cloud your judgment, making it hard to tell if the negative thoughts you are experiencing are outside yourself or inside your psyche.
Here are four signs that it's time to change your mindset and improve your life.
You Constantly Focus on Everything That's Wrong
If you are always fixating your attention on the disappointments and worries in your life, this is a sure indication that your mindset is tainted with negativity.
To begin to change this mindset, take some time to think about those things in your life that you are thankful for because it will help keep the negative thoughts from completely overwhelming your perspective.
You Won't Face the Truth
Complaining about reality won't change it. Relentlessly complaining, is ultimately your refusal to acknowledge and accept the truth.
There are things in your life that you just can't change, and refusing to see the world as it is, results in you no longer being able to tell fact from fiction. Take action and change those things that you can and accept those that you can't.
You Become Angry When Your Expectations Aren't Met
Your expectations are a large part of your mindset. They are what you believe to be necessary and possible. If you are always angry that the people in your life, or when even you yourself, are not meeting expectations, it means that your expectations were unrealistic, to begin with.
Our expectations are what lay the groundwork for our experiences, and if we have unrealistic expectations, we will never be satisfied with our life.
You See Yourself as a Victim
Continually seeing yourself as a victim, hinders your ability to change things and build a better life for yourself. This victim mentality is generally a by-product of low self-esteem.
The only way to change this mindset is by deciding to reject the victim role and start creating something better for yourself.
Changing your mindset isn't easy, but it is one of the most powerful things you can do for yourself.
If you want to become successful, then you are going to have to develop the right kind of mindset.
Here are five things to help you develop a successful mindset.
You may be thinking that the conversations that you have with other people are what matters most when trying to achieve success.
However, it is the conversations that you have with yourself that matter most. Talk to yourself in a way that plants positivity, rather than criticism and doubt.
Your intentions are going to set the tone for how you ultimately navigate both professional and personal success.
If you haven't set yours high enough to challenge the status quo, then you need to think bigger and push yourself farther past your comfort zone. Learn to be comfortable with the uncomfortable.
Two things that are vital to your long-term success are both your passion and your perseverance.
Grit is what helps push us past the strong desire to give up, especially when we experience setbacks and failures. Grit is something that you will need to learn about and develop over time.
The only way for you to move forward is by developing structure.
Start by dividing your larger goals into smaller, more manageable chunks. Then
create a strategic plan
to help assure you achieve success.
You need to make the decision that you will always be working toward your goal, by tackling bite-sized pieces of the goal until you've found success.
This means that whether you are making a phone call, sending an email, or physically maneuvering to achieve the next steps, you are always doing something to reach your goal.
Execution helps you begin to trust yourself, so you can move one step closer to your goals.
A success mindset turns problems into challenges.
It means that you stop seeing setbacks as the end of the world and start seeing them as new opportunities to kick ass and take names! When you take this approach, nothing can stand in your way.
When you genuinely believe you can do anything, it doesn’t just affect the way you walk around the office and conduct yourself in business – it changes the way that you present yourself and feel about yourself. In short, you feel
Finally though, when you adopt a success mindset and everything that comes with that, you’ll finally start to get what you want.
Better yet, it won’t seem like an impossible task anymore. Once you give off that iron self-belief, others will start to believe in you too. When you have a clear goal and mission, anything becomes possible. It’s just a matter of time.
© 2018 by Marisa Specogna